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You Should Always Feel Like You're Slightly In Over Your Head

What the learning process is like

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Tetra
Feb 06, 2026
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The paradox of getting good at any skill is that you always feel like you suck.

Because the way you achieve mastery is by constantly putting yourself in a position where you’re slightly in over your head.

You should always feel like your skills are inadequate for the current situation.

Not in a sense where you’re flailing around helplessly like a true beginner.

You shouldn’t be completely lost in the sauce, staring wild-eyed and slack-jawed at the problem with no hope of a solution.

You should feel like “damn, if I knew a little bit more this would be easy”.

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